Life’s great!

Yeah, that’s how I feel. I’m just lerning to make myself happy, and that is a relief.

I’ve always thought that I needed things to be happy. Like, I coundn’t be happy alone, without a boyfriend. I just couldn’t. Life and media teach that you need love, you gotta have a partner to feel complete. And there you are, with all those friendly couples around you, being just charming and…. happy. While you are there, alone, watching happyness with a yellow smile on your face.

And then you are just one more sad and miserable person in this world. God (or fade, or whatever you believe in) is not fair with you. That makes you sit and wait for happyness to come, beautiful as it is, ready to give everything you’ve always wanted.

Well, that’s just wrong.

I mean, are you healthy? Or let me make it better: are you alive? That’s already a good reason to celebrate. You have your life in your hands. Your decisions are gonna make it good or miserable. Don’t blame or don’t throw the responsability for your happyness on somebody’s hands. That’s not fair. WE are responsible for OUR live, OUR happyness and, why not, OUR sadness.

The important thing is: we have the power and our destiny in our hand. We can’t avoid suffering, but we can choose the way we’re gonna pass through hard times. And this choise can make life sucks or it can make it lighter.

You have to learn to be happy by yourself and not depend on others for that. And when the special one appears, instead of you steal his happyness, you both are going to share it. And that is love.

So, the first lesson: look inside of you and see all your potentials and all the power you have inside. Among all this, you’ll find a great willing for living and smiling. Accept it and let it flow.

Be Happy.



So, hi there!

Yes, just another WordPress blog. Nothing exciting. I won’t me mad if you leave right now. But if you decide to stay: a) thank you; b) here I go.

My name is Lua (or not). I’m from South America (well, that’s true). I decided to write a blog in english just to practice it. And also because it feels like I’m leaving my real life to look it from a safe distance. It’s been a while since a don’t speak or write in english, so I will make mistakes and I’ll be glad if you correct them.

Why did I created this? I don’t know. I have another blog, but the difference is that I’m hiding myself in this one. I want people who don’t know me to read it. I feel that I won’t have readers at all, but… I don’t care (at first).

The thing is:

I’ve just graduated from college. I don’t have a job. I’m not in love with my profession. I don’t have money. I’m kind of scared abou my future.

I’m not a self-confident person. I don’t trust myself. I don’t know my talents. But I see a lot of flaws in myself. I’m single. I’ve never thought I was pretty. I have no courage. I have fears.

I want to write about it, about these moments. But in a new perspective: I wanna change it. So I wanna make this blog my 2011 Project: Changing Carol. Or something like that.

So, if you share these feelings, if you wanna express your opinion, you’re welcome. But if you wanna tell me to get a life, with all due respect, I don’t need to read it because I’m aware of this fact. And I want to prove it with this blog.

I don’t know if I’ll keep this thing going, because it’s hard to give a blog a decent life. But I’ll try it.

If you got to this point, thank you! I want it to be a “happy life” blog. I hope we get it.

See ya!

Ps: do you guys know how to chance the font? I don’t like this one :\